Remember when fear was enough to keep children ON the pool’s stairs and OUT of the deep end? No more. Thanks to “floaties” and cute, Speedo life vests designed for pooling, Olivia – a.k.a. the “Invisible Girl” – thinks she can swim…even when she’s not wearing her life vest.
Take Wednesday, for example.
I had finally, successfully lured all four of my children out of our community pool with the promise of take-out pizza for dinner when I saw one of their boogie boards bump up against the edge of the pool’s deep end. They must have been really hungry because when I asked the “big kids” to go retrieve the board, they started arguing about who most deserved to be bothered with the task.
Meanwhile, the Invisible Girl slipped away. I caught sight of her, squatting at the edge of the pool and teetering on her tippy toes, just as she leaned her life vestless little body out over the water and snagged the board’s cord. I didn’t have time to complete my command, “Step away from the pool and GET BACK HERE!” before she was speed walking (at least she noticed my glare and, I’m sure, was anticipating my usual, “WALK!”) back to our little poolside group.
Invisible explained that it was okay: “I just grabbed the cord and pulled the boogie board out; and, anyway I can swim!” I explained to Invisible – as calmly as I could – that although I was very thankful for her assistance, she is not to go near the water without my permission and her life vest, without which she cannot swim.
On our walk home, Invisible slipped her hand into mine, looked up and asked, “Mommy, so next time it’s okay if I put my life vest on and THEN go get the boogie board?” What could I say? I wonder if it’s even possible for her to “get” my need to SEE her, to KNOW where she is?